To send a personal message to another forum member click the envelope in the black bar at the top of the page. Next go right and click "compose new". Enter the name of the person you're mailing. Make sure you type it exactly as written. Type the subject then the message. Click "Send". When you have a reply, there will be a red marker against the envelope. If you move along the black bar for a couple of inches and click the arrow against your name, besides other functions, you can also get to the message system from there